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Biologically ...not really. Socially it is frowned upon and borderline illegal.
There is a metric that is generally the acceptable age difference, and that is
Half the age plus 7.
...so 33/2=16.5 + 7 = 23.5
A 33 year old should be going out with no younger than a 23 year old.
in your case the upper end should be 19.

Aside from that the two of you should be in different stages of life and the compatibility for a proper relationship is minimal.

I am a dude and when I was 19 I went out with a 33 year old woman and the sex was hot. We were in our sexual primes (18 for men vs. 30 for women)

Biologically a girl of 16 is attracted to older more established men (power, stability) so that any offspring will be taken care of and have a good chance of survival into adulthood. Men are attracted to young fertile healthy women as any mating/relationship will produce the most offspring.

Bottom line you do you and get your freak on, as long as he treats you with respect and the relationship is not dysfunctional. Aside from age if everything is good then go for it.

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depending on ur state or countries laws. the age of consent is about between 15 to 17 some younger. so i would to be safe make sure that ur age falls into that category. because age is just a number but its what other nusey people think .. or say. cause they can easily call the authorities on him. also you got haters that wish they had it like u so theyll do it and cause problems. good luck

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he could get arrested and if he gets you pregnant he will go to prison i dont see anything wrong in fact its quite hot

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I find it perfectly fine. If your bf is not some bastard or something, then there's nothing wrong.

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Get out of that situation. He is either using you or planning to use you.

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Have fun, there's nothing wrong with that, as I think you already know if you listen to your instincts.

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I'm not one to put my personal opinion out there other than my own on what you should or shouldn't do. I do believe love is in fact love though. It really depends now where you are located, so I'd take a second to look up the Age of Consent in your state/province/country. Everything after that is your own choice and you are the root of your own decisions.

Happy Hacking :)

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If you really want to do this then do it. Lot of people gonna say its wrong but if you want this then no on is stopping you :)

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Depends on how many years you've been dating, hopefully not more than four.

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Sure you should give a try, if he is legitely trying to be with you and not just take your virginity or anything, people always say "if he is XX older he is using or abusing you", its bs even if you had a bf of your age he could abuse and use you, people only see the corrupt side of people while most are inclined for being self-centered some are still trying to have nice relationship with others.

I'd just say, do not be blind with him he is old enough dont travel with him alone or something unless you somehow make him trusted by your parents and accept your relationship,thats too dangerous even if your parnts know is

I'd advise you to let someone you trust into knowing certain details about the relationship if anything goes south she can help you, this goes for any relationship do not love blindly, when someone love they wont abuse if they are abusing its not love anymore

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no. its wrong.

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your bf is a pedo.

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